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We did haggle with some success. But, hats men it was a pretty arduous walk through the narrow aisles constantly rump bumping with strangers. This is the kind of place I would tell a friend to go for cheap clothes or what you might call new flea market clothes. Many of the clothes are good enough. They won't be confused with designer clothes or even Macy's cheapest stuff. But, if you are looking for something functional (like a coat or a hat or scarf or some children's clothes), you'll likely find it here. The only westerner I saw in the place was myself in a mirror. So, it seems like a lot of locals shop here for budget clothing. That's my guess. I liked going there, once. This is a big building with kinda open plan stalls. The entrance/exit is on either side of the building via glass doors, easy to miss.

The Sorting Hat, which is infamously stubborn, still refuses to accept that its decision in the case of the latter may have been erroneous, citing the manner in which Pettigrew died as (dubious) evidence. The other misleading thing that he says is that "he's repented and wants your marriage to get help." What he's implying is that his abuse is not the real problem here. The problem is your marriage and your issues. And if you got help for your dad hats issues and your marriage improved the way he wanted, then he wouldn't abuse you. What he's saying without saying it is "See, it's your fault and the marriage's fault I acted that way." And you might even notice that your spouse doesn't ALWAYS use abuse when he gets stressed. For example, how does he handle himself when someone is visiting your house or when he's out in public?

The abuse cycle was the reality in my bowler hat marriage and my reality still as I am trying to get through the divorce more than a year later. Then on top of the cycle, he shouts from the rooftops that it is all my fault. Thankfully, my sons see the reality of the abuse and the "craziness" of their father as he slanders me, accuses me and tells boldface lies about me. I wish I had been able to see the abuse for what it was, but the abuse cycle confuses us and our empathy keeps us hooked and then the" God hates divorce " keeps us in a vicious cycle of guilt and confusion. Thank you again, Leslie, for validating us and giving us hope. Why do you feel this way? I don't think I would recommend a sort of he said  she said back and forth drama thing, but can you not speak simple truth about the lies hats kangol he is fed.

Throwing something at the back of someone's head (interesting what a sneaky way of approach that is!!!) because he is displeased or pouting or selfish, or  making a point', or asserting the fantasy of  authority' is NOT an ok, or even normal behaviour! It is on the spectrum of violence, and there is nothing to stop him from  upping his game' to throwing something heavier, sharper, more lethal or repeatedly& & except he hasn't thought of that yet. One day he might. From Pilgrim's Progress& CHRISTIAN: "You are pretty near the root of the issue, which is the lack of a true change of mind and will. They are therefore like the felon who quakes and trembles before the judge, and seems to repent most heartily; but the reason is his fear of the noose, not that he has any true remorse for his crime.

I'm not sure how and when to tell him, perhaps after I file. Free, your words and advice are so wise I feel in my heart they are from the Lord. You are right, my husband was never living, like dead bones walking. I never was the psychological aggressor although the children have seen me at times frustrated and hurt from his apathy, indifference and lack of protection or loyalty, even to the point of taking sides publicly with those who offended me, or at times I was angry or irritable because of his self absorbed behavior, distance and lack of emotional connection. His controlling, aggressive behavior has been covert. Most of what they've seen is the lack of connection and bonding so to children they see mom crying and shouting at dad and don't get it. And he has said, "oh mom isn't feeling well." I feel guilty for not being more in control of myself at times and allowing him to push my buttons.

If I say I wasn't the psychological aggressor, I'm not sure they would understand given the passive-aggressiveness of their father. Since they learned that dad needed to be appeased and nothing could be challenged, anytime I responded to clarify or hats straw share my feelings, it was seen as mom getting upset again. It's so insidious. Bottom line is I am praying they have a breakthrough and see their dad for who he really is. What did you mean by playing the game longer to get the most out of the legal arrangement? I am worried that if I leave, I could lose the house. FL, I am posting out of sequence to answer your question by what I meant by "playing the game." At some point you formulated some appeasement plan that let you function as long as you have.